Difference between being rude & aloof
Hazrat Hakeemul Ummat Mawlana Asharf Ali Thanawi ra said:
“It is rude not to fulfil the right of others due on one’s self. Whereas, not to demand rights of one’s self from others is being self-sufficient (istegna). (This is required).
Waaz: Huqooq e Quran, page 28
'abd | B. Praise worthy morals