Masih al-Quloob Mawlana MasihUllah Khan (may Allah Have mercy on him) said,

“Wife is most the unpredictable relative.  A parent or a child, both of whom are closely related, will draw a line in their attitude and behaviour. But a wife draws no lines. She has no regard for any etiquette. Therefore, no matter what her attitude, no matter what words she utters, no matter what unbecoming language she uses, do not take offence. ”

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