‘What is the method of benefiting spiritually from the pious?’
Shaikh Maulana Sayyid Abul Hassan Ali Nadwi (Allah have mercy on him) replied summarizing the gist of the experience of his whole life,
‘It is with respect, silence, patience, listening attentively, keeping the mind clear (especially from) thoughts of suspicion and objection, and not being critical.
One remains silent contemplating that Allah will make them say whatever is best (for me).’
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