Advice to the bridegroom!

Last evening at the nikah ceremony of Sayyidi wa sanadi Hazrat Mawlana Mohammad Taqi Usmani db’s daughter at Darul Uloom mosque, Hazrat Nawab Eshrat Ali Khan Qaiser db while making dua said;

“I repeat the advice rendered by Arif billah Dr. Abdul Hayy Arifi ra to the bride groom at my daughter’s nikah. That is,

غصہ مت کرنا۔


ناقدری نہ کرنا۔

Do not get angry and never depreciate her.”

In this succinct recommendation lies the secret of a successful married life.

All of us who are trying to develop a relationship with our Lord (ta’luq ma Allah SWT) should take a moment to reflect on our own attitude towards our spouse.

Wa ma tawfeeqi ila billah