In summary excellent conduct (husun al-khuluq) is that,
1. In reply to harm and incitement by others one makes supplication (dua) for them or acts in an exemplary good manner.
2. Not to pay attention to the misconduct of others in the first place (i.e Ignore it).
3. Not being selfish.
4. Being very cautious not to become angry.
5. Be extremely careful not to be arrogant.
Ahzab tahzib un nafus, Munajat e maqbool, ((zamimajat, Saeedi)) page 306