Shaikh Dhunun al Misri (Allah have mercy on him) said,
Three things are sign of having a (special & close) relationship with Allah. They are;
1.Turning to Him all the matters
2. Asking everything from Him
3. Trying to get close to Him all the time.
Urdu translation of al Kaukab al duriyu fi manaqib Dhunun al Misri, by Ibn al Arabi (Allah have mercy on them), page 79