A Collection of Speeches by sayyidi wa sanadi Mufti Muhammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him) taken from Discourses on Islamic Way Of Life.
Category Archives: T. Tarbiyet
A quiz!

Source: Ilm o Amal Monthly magazine
Paying financial dues: A priority!

Sayyidi wa sanadi Mawlana Mohammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him) instructs those approaching him for reformation (islah),
‘If there are pending financial obligations prompt arrangement must be made to pay these dues.
If the payment is not possible immediately then one should inform the owner and request for a grace period.
Then one should really strive meticulously to repay. This must be considered the topmost priority.’
Dastur al-amal baraay talibeen e islah, page 5-6
Desired good company

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Hakim al-Ummah Mawlana Ashraf `Ali Thanawi (may Allah have mercy on him) writes:
“Allah Most High has put this quality in humans that they are quickly and substantially affected by the thoughts and conditions of others.
[This occurs even] without any specific effort, and happens whether it is good or bad company.
Good company is an element of immense benefit; in the same way, bad company is an element of tremendous harm.
Good company is of such a person who, based on the need, has a grasp on the issues of Deen, and one has good faith in him. He abstains from Shirk, innovation, and worldly affairs. His actions are good, and he is firm and constant in his Salah, fasting, and other necessary acts of worship. His dealings are good and his transactions are clean. He is careful about issues of Halal and Haram. His outward behavior is also excellent. He has a humble disposition and he does not harm anyone without reason. He does not consider the poor and needy to be inferior. His inner qualities are also pleasing. He keeps the love and fear of Allah Most High in his heart. He does not keep much greed for the world in his heart. [When in] conflict with the Deen, he does not care for wealth, comfort, or disgrace. He keeps the Hereafter in front of him, and does not keep this world dear to him. He is patient and thankful in every circumstance.
If someone is found with these qualities, his company is an elixir.
If someone cannot fully recognize these qualities, for him (assistance in) recognition is to seek the pious people of his time, those who are considered by most Muslims to be pious. They should speak well (of him). And after remaining in his company several times, the heart should shy away from blameworthy traits and turn towards praiseworthy morals. Consider such a person to be pious and adopt his company.”
Hayat al-Muslimeen, p. 27 (Multan: Idara Ta’lifaat Ashrafiya)
By Brother I. Khan
Dhikr

The reward of remembrance of Allah (dhikr) is the facilitation (tawfiq) of dhikr itself. And Allah, most High, acknowledges this action of of His slave.
Dhikr removes heedlessness.
The method of dhikr for the novice seeker is the vocal repetition of the Holy-name (ism-e-dhat). For the moderately advanced (mutawassit) it is the contemplation (tasawwur) of this by heart (qalb). And for the graduate (muntahi) seeker it is the perpetual following of the commands of Shariah as though they are his instinctive nature.
Ahzab tahzib un nafus, Munajat e maqbool, ((zamimajat, Saeedi)) page 308
Example of husun e khuluq!

A solidier slapped Shaykh Ibrahim ibne Adham (Allah have mercy on him) mistakenly. On recognizing his error he returned to apologize.
Shaykh Ibne Adham (Allah have mercy on him) told him that when you slapped me I supplicated to Allah to grant you paradise (jannah). The shocked soldier requested an explanation for this extraordinary behaviour.
Shaykh explained that I was certain that I will be rewarded (by Allah) for this slapping and it made me uncomfortable that you cause me reward and good and in return you get sin and punishment (in here-after). Therefore I supplicated for you.
Ahzab tahzib un nafus, Munajat e maqbool, ((zamimajat, Saeedi)) page 305
Jihad al-Akbar

There is a consensus among all the well established Sufi masters that the foundation stone of Tasawwuf and spiritual path (sulook) is to cleanse the nafs (lower self) of the blame worthy moral traits (razail).
This is achieved by the aspirant using his determination (himmat) to act against the desires of his nafs.
This acting against the nafs is called the spiritual struggle (mujahidah), endeavor (riyadah) and jihad al-akbar.
Neither excessive remembrance (dhikr), offering supererogatory salah, recitation of litanies and Holy Quran nor even the observance of the essentials (faraiz) disciplines the nafs. This is because the role of these things in removal of blame worthy characteristics is that of secondary assistance and not primary treatment. The individual will receive their reward and merits respectively. However, it is against the norms set by Allah that the nafs be disciplined without meticulous spiritual struggle (mujahidah).
This is the reason we observe that most of the religious individuals are inflicted with blame worthy moral characteristics in spite of their extra worship.
Ahzab tahzib un nafus, Munajat e maqbool, (zamimajat, Saeedi) page 301
What is husun al-khuluq?

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In summary excellent conduct (husun al-khuluq) is that,
1. In reply to harm and incitement by others one makes supplication (dua) for them or acts in an exemplary good manner.
2. Not to pay attention to the misconduct of others in the first place (i.e Ignore it).
3. Not being selfish.
4. Being very cautious not to become angry.
5. Be extremely careful not to be arrogant.
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Ahzab tahzib un nafus, Munajat e maqbool, ((zamimajat, Saeedi)) page 306
Vienna airport
Real Message of Seerah

Sayyid wa sanadi Mawlana Mohammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him) wrote:
“What really is important with regard to the Holy Prophet, (Allah’s blessings and peace be upon him) is,
first to follow his teachings,
and second to make his pious Seerah available to every Muslim,
to preserve it in the hearts of the Muslims from the very childhood,
to educate the family members to run their lives according to it and
to hold it as the most glorious example of the human conduct the universe has ever witnessed.
To do all this with utmost love and reverence, not manifested by some formal activities only, but also through actual behavior of following the Sunnah.
This cannot be done by merely holding processions and illuminating the walls.
This requires constant and consistent efforts and a meaningful program of education and training.”
Islamic Months: Rabiul Awal
نسخہ کیمیا
The Prophetic advice

إذا قمت في صلواتك فصل صلاة مودع
ولا تتكلم بكلام تعتذر منه
واجمع الإياس مما في أيدي الناس
An individual approached Prophet Muhammad (Allah bless him and give him peace) and requested for some concise advice.
The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said,
At the time of offering salat, pray as if this is your last prayer.
And
Do not speak anything for which you will have to apologize later.
And
Do not have any desire for what other people possess.
Ahamd via Jawahar al-Hikam, page 23
Red Flags

We live in peculiar times. Moral degradation, deception and selfishness are rampant. None of the facets of human life are spared. Neither the religion of Islam nor its sublime application in form of Tasawwuf are an exception.
For Tasawwuf in very few cases this is in active form (i.e active deception and fraud), sometimes it is due to ignorance and most of the time it is because of a delusional state resulting from lay public admiration and following.
Hence it is essential to be on high alert when approaching Tasawwuf and spiritual masters. A minor lapse can end up in a major disaster, especially in here-after.
No silsilaof Tasawwuf is spared. For this reason relying only on a ijazah certification is grossly inappropriate. A thorough evaluation is recommended before committing to a Shaykh.
Senior Shuyukh continue to evaluate their khulafa on a regular basis and revoke the permission ( ijaza) granted to them if necessary. Any suspicious activity by any of the khulafa needs to be reported to his Shaykh.
For a seeker following are some of the points that should raise red flags and alert him/her to be more cautious in this context. They are from the teachings of Hakim al-Umma Shaykh Ashraf ‘Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him).
1. The preaching and propagation are for a specific Shaykh and Tariqa. All others Islamic groups and activities are looked down upon.
2. There are boastful claims (kashaf o karamat, dreams) and self-eulogies by the Shaykh himself or those close to him.
3. The rituals and customs are given preference over Sunna and piety in everyday life. The hierarchy of fiqh is ignored. The reward-able (mustaheb) actions are done as though they are essential (wajib).
4. There is micromanagement of murid‘s affair. That is, vital financial, social interaction and marital issue decisions are made by Shaykh.
5. There are financial schemes for donations or investments by Shaykh or his representatives.
6. The tariqa teachings are imposed on the seeker to the extent beyond their current yearning and capabilities. The instructions given to and restrictions set are unrealistic for their current spiritual state.
7. The inappropriate actions of senior or close murids are ignored.
8. People are actively recruited by senior and close murids to make baiyah without having a clear understanding of the commitment.
9. All those who approach for baiyah are accepted immediately.
10. None or limited individualized guidance and follow up is possible from the Shaykh.
11. The established text and teachings of the previous spiritual masters of the tariqa are ignored. In our case they are the books & teachings of Hakim al-Umma in particular.
12. Emphasis is on a physical structure of khanqah or zawiya than on the spiritual tarbiyat.
13. Specific type or color headgear and particular style of attire becomes the hallmark of the silsila.
14. The majority of the followers are lay people and their spiritual condition has not changed in spite of being with the silsila for considerable amount of time.
15. The non-scholar sufi masters do not refer fiqhi questions to the scholars. Moreover they actively create mistrust of scholars in general.
16. The issues discussed in spiritual talks are beyond the comprehension and practical benefit of an ordinary seeker.
17. All genuine criticism is taken negatively. The reply is reflective of poor adab and blameworthy morals. It does not lead to introspection and improvement.
Etcetra.
In summary, it is essential to be very careful before committing our most precious thing: faith (eman). A thorough investigation is essential.
And remember it is never to late to do so.
May Allah save us all. Amin!
Alchemy

Arif-billah Shaykh Dr. Abdul Hayy Arifi (Allah have mercy on him) said;
‘For two minutes talk to Allah any time during the day telling Him,
“O Allah! I am inept, weak, unworthy, and unable to do any thing significant. Please, do have Your special benevolence for me.”
Say this all.
Can’t you even do this?
You certainly have the power to articulate this.
(And if you do so,) Then you will see how your (spiritual) condition changes (for the better).
This is an alchemy prescription by our Shaykh Hakim al-Umma (Allah have mercy on him).’
(Malfoozat e Arifi 58)
تسھیل تربيت السالك Tarbiyat us Salik (simplified)
Watching Obscenity on Internet

A young brother inquired:
One of the sins I am involved in is watching obscene and lewd material on the internet. Please, guide me on how to stop this wretched action.
Sayyidi wa sanadi Mufti Mohammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him) replied;
“It is most essential to abandon this action right now by forcefully acting against the desires to do so. To achieve this do not log on to the internet at all.
For this treatment to be effective make firm determination and sincere resolve.
Otherwise, remember, this is an extremely destructive sin.”
Islahi khutoot




