Watching Obscenity on Internet

A young brother inquired: One of the sins I am involved in is watching obscene and lewd material on the internet. Please, guide me on how to stop this wretched action. Sayyidi wa sanadi Mufti Mohammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him) replied; “It is most essential to abandon this action right now by forcefully acting against the […]

Suhba of books, magazines, newspaper & internet

Shaykh Raziuddin Ahmad Fakhri (may Allah have mercy on him) said, “Similar to the good and bad effects of the company of an individual and the items of his/her personal use, books, magazines and newspapers also have these effects. One has to be very cautious in deciding which book or newspaper to read. “ Ahl e […]

Internet and haya

Respected Sahibzada Amer (may Allah grant him a long and healthy life) a very senior murid of sayyidi wa sanadi said, “We focus on staying away from television, as most of the programming is un-Islamic. However, little if any attention is paid to the internet. Inappropriate use of internet is more rampant and morally destructive than TV. […]

First Things First

It is a principle of Tasawwuf: There must be NO haste in making bayiat. Firstly you have to understand why do you want it in first place? What expectations do you have? Then you have to look for an appropriate Shaykh with whom you have munasibet (congeniality). That is, you feel comfortable taking instructions from […]

Treatment for Pornography Addiction

A seeker wrote, I am writing in regards to a very serious problem that I reported earlier too. I am feel extremely ashamed to write about this but I have to disclose the gravity of the issue in detail. Ashrafiya replied,This feeling, discussion and attempt to improve a destructive condition is in itself a huge […]

The first step

A seeker wrote A year after Hajj ALLAH has blessed us with a daughter Allhamdulliah!!. Since then I really got involved with her. I tried my best to be devoted but I realized that my iman is getting weaker and weaker. I was not able to do those things which i used to do before […]

Seclusion from social media

Imam Abu Hamid al-Ghazali (Allah have mercy on him) said, ‘You must seclude yourself from people, for they will preoccupy you from the worship of Allah Most Exalted. Nay, they will prevent you from it altogether! Nay, they will cause you to succumb to evil and ruin!’ Minhajal’abidin via The virtues of seclusion in times […]

Repentance: The first step!

          A sincere reader wrote, Assalam o alaikum… My name is XYZ…. I’m a student of college… Basically I am from Town C. I stumbled upon your site. Thanks for such an outstanding work for us. May Allah bless you and give you what you want in this life and after death. […]

Vacation: How to spend it?

One of our readers, a graduate student, asked, How should an individual spend his Ramadan and summer vacations ??? 1) Going with Tabligi Jammat for 10-15 days 2) Performing eitakaf (seclusion in mosque for the last 10 days of Ramadhan) 3) Studying the translation and tasfir of Quran e Kareem from a scholar 4) Going […]

Missing Daily Tasbihat

Comment: “I have been regular with tilawat, monjat e maqbool and other tasbeehat but was not doing the dwazdah tasbihat. When missed during the day, I try to recite a few of that tasbihat but not complete. In this regard please advise if I miss dwazdah tasbihat, should I impose a penalty on myself as […]

I want to change for better but…………

All of the spiritual seekers aspire to do good and abstain from sinful actions. However, most of us harbor a misconception regarding the means to achieve this goal. We wish for a overpowering and overwhelming state that facilitates this for us by itself. Automatically. A kind of fairy tale magic spell. Moreover, we assume that […]