Category Archives: H. Whispering & random thoughts

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Red Flags

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We live in peculiar times. Moral degradation, deception and selfishness are rampant. None of the facets of human life are spared. Neither the religion of Islam nor its sublime application in form of Tasawwuf are an exception.

 For Tasawwuf in very few cases this is in active form (i.e active deception and fraud), sometimes it is due to ignorance and most of the time it is because of a delusional state resulting from lay public admiration and following.

Hence it is essential to be on high alert when approaching Tasawwuf and spiritual masters. A minor lapse can end up in a major disaster, especially in here-after.

No silsilaof Tasawwuf is spared. For this reason relying only on a ijazah certification is grossly inappropriate.  A thorough evaluation is recommended before committing to a Shaykh.

Senior Shuyukh continue to evaluate their khulafa on a regular basis and revoke the permission ( ijaza) granted to them if necessary.  Any suspicious activity by any of the khulafa needs to be reported to his Shaykh.

For a seeker following are some of the points that should raise red flags and alert him/her to be more cautious in this context. They are from the teachings of Hakim al-Umma Shaykh Ashraf ‘Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him).

1. The preaching and propagation are for a specific Shaykh and Tariqa. All others Islamic groups and activities are looked down upon.

2. There are boastful claims (kashaf o karamat, dreams) and self-eulogies by the Shaykh himself or those close to him.

3. The rituals and customs are given preference over Sunna and piety in everyday life. The hierarchy of fiqh is ignored.  The reward-able (mustaheb) actions are done as though they are essential (wajib).

4. There is micromanagement of murid‘s affair. That is, vital financial, social interaction and marital issue decisions are made by Shaykh.

5. There are financial schemes for donations or investments by Shaykh or his representatives.

6. The tariqa teachings are imposed on the seeker to the extent beyond their current yearning and capabilities. The instructions given to and restrictions set are unrealistic for their current spiritual state.

7. The inappropriate actions of senior or close murids are ignored.

8. People are actively recruited by senior and close murids to make baiyah without having a clear understanding of the commitment.

9. All those who approach for baiyah are accepted immediately.

10. None or limited individualized guidance and follow up is possible from the Shaykh.

11. The established text and teachings of the previous spiritual masters of the tariqa are ignored. In our case they are the books & teachings of Hakim al-Umma in particular.

12. Emphasis is on a physical structure of khanqah or zawiya than on the spiritual tarbiyat.

13. Specific type or color headgear and particular style of attire becomes the hallmark of the silsila.

14. The majority of the followers are lay people and their spiritual condition has not changed in spite of being with the silsila for considerable amount of time.

15. The non-scholar sufi masters do not refer fiqhi questions to the scholars.  Moreover they actively create mistrust of scholars in general.

16. The issues discussed in spiritual talks are beyond the comprehension and practical benefit of an ordinary seeker.

17. All genuine criticism is taken negatively. The reply is reflective of poor adab and blameworthy morals. It does not lead to introspection and improvement.

Etcetra.

In summary, it is essential to be very careful before committing our most precious thing: faith (eman). A thorough investigation is essential.

And remember it is never to late to do so.

May Allah save us all. Amin!

Alchemy

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Arif-billah Shaykh Dr. Abdul Hayy Arifi (Allah have mercy on him) said;

‘For two minutes talk to Allah any time during the day telling Him,
“O Allah! I am inept, weak, unworthy, and unable to do any thing significant. Please, do have Your special benevolence for me.”
Say this all.

 Can’t you even do this?
You certainly have the power to articulate this.

(And if you do so,) Then you will see how your (spiritual) condition changes (for the better).
This is an alchemy prescription by our Shaykh Hakim al-Umma (Allah have mercy on him).’

(Malfoozat e Arifi 58)

Watching Obscenity on Internet

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A young brother inquired:

One of the sins I am involved in is watching obscene and lewd material on the internet. Please, guide me on how to stop this wretched action.

Sayyidi wa sanadi Mufti Mohammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him) replied;

“It is most essential to abandon this action right now by forcefully acting against the desires to do so.  To achieve this do not log on to the internet at all.

For this treatment to be effective make firm determination and sincere resolve.

Otherwise, remember, this is an extremely destructive sin.”

Islahi khutoot

Qabdh: Spiritual contraction

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An individual complained that from many days I feel as though the special relationship with Allah (nisbet) has been lifted from me. There remains no interest in the daily wird and worship.

Shaykh Sayyid Zawwar Hussain Shah (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘This is not the removal of nisbet. This state is called the spiritual contraction (qabdh).

The nisbet is removed by committing infidelity (kufr), associating partners with Allah (shirk), involvement in innovations (bida’) and major sins (kabair).

Whereas, the state of qabdh afflicts all including the novice and the advanced spiritual traveler. When it occurs the individual considers that this might be due to indulgence in sinful acts and therefore repents. In fact the repentance done in this state is much more sincere  than done in the state of spiritual expansion (bast).

Whenever afflicted by qabd one should increase in repentance, recite la hawla wa la quwwata illa biallah in abundance and continue with the daily wird and worship with extra effort. There should be no absence from these daily activities, even accomplishing a portion of them will suffice.’

Mahnama Tamir e ifkar, eshaet khas bayad Shaykh Syed Zawwar Hussain Shah (Allah have mercy on him), page 606-7

Love of Messenger صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم

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تعصی الرسول وانت تظھرحبھ

ھذا العمری فی الفعال بدیع

لو کان حبک صادقا لاطعتھ

ان المحب لمن یحب مطیع

(ابن مبارک رح)

You disobey the Messenger صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم and claim to love him,

I swear by my life, this thing is impossible,

If you were true in your claim, you would have obeyed him,

For indeed, a lover obeys the one he loves.

مواعظ اشرفیہ: شکر النعمۃ بذکرالرحمۃ/الابقاء 1981 ص141

Seeker’s affliction

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Sidi Ahmad Zarruq al-Barnusi al-Fasi (Allah have mercy on him) [1442 – 1493 CE] said,

I have also seen that the seekers of this age are afflicted with five things:

1.The preference of ignorance over knowledge

2. Being deluded by every spiritual impostor

3. The inability to prioritize important matters

4. Using the spiritual path as a means to inflate the selfish soul

5. Attempting to expedite a spiritual opening without fulfilling its prerequisite conditions.

This has resulted in five other afflictions:

1. Preferring innovations as opposed to the tried and true prophetic practice (Sunna)

2. Following the people of claims and conceit as opposed to the truth

3. Acting on capricious desires in all of their affairs, even the most celestial

4. Preferring fantasies to realities

5. The manifestation of claims without sincerity.

Foundations of the Spiritual Path Translated by Shaykh Hamza Yusuf Hanson

Spiritual progress

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Shaykh Sayyid Zawwar Hussain Shah (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘The progress in spiritual path (sulook) is not sudden.  It is gradual and therefore, not appreciated by the spiritual traveller.

For example, if someone has hundred rupees in his pocket the addition of one more does not draw any attention and is, therefore, most of the time  not appreciated.  However, when this addition increases to two hundred then the increase is evidently appreciated.

In most of the instances the spiritual aspirant can not gauge his own progress. The Shaykh, however, assesses this by various signs and symptoms and leads him further on the path. ‘

Mahnama Tamir e ifkar, eshaet khas bayad Shaykh Syed Zawwar Hussain Shah (Allah have mercy on him), page 596

Shaykh Syed Zawwar Hussain Shah (Allah have mercy on him) was born in a Shiafamily. It was after correspondence with Hakim al-Umma Shaykh Ashraf Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him) he became a Sunni.

Teaching by example

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Sayyidi wa sanadiShaykh Mufti Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him) is in the blessed Medinah these days.

With the Saudi school mid year vacations there is a huge crowd of pilgrims.

Going for the Friday prayers an individual inquired the Shaykh where could he find him in the Haram.  The Shaykh replied that  usually he tries to be in the first row of the mosque.  To do so he left two and half hours before the juma salah time.

This apparently ‘ordinary thing’ is a teaching for all of us who are trying to improve their condition.

The excellence of praying in the first row, coming early for Friday prayers, sitting with the intention of e’itkaf, reading Holy Quran, reciting tasbih & salawat, offering salat at-tasbih, waiting for salah, etc. are things with numerous rewards mentioned in the Prophetic sayings.

Setting our priorities appropriately and useful utilization of time is the key to implementing these things in our practical life.

May Allah facilitate this for us. Amin!

Friday, 12th Feburary 2010, Medinah e munawwarah

The aim and spirit of awrād

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Imam Abdallah ibn Alawi al-Haddad (Allah have mercy on him) (d.1132 Hijri) said,

‘The aim and spirit of awrād is presence with Allah.

Aim for it; you will reach it only if you travel the road that leads to it, which is performing the external activities and striving to be present with Allah during them. When you persevere in this you become immersed in the lights of Proximity, and the sciences of gnosis emanate upon you, at which your heart becomes wholly intent on God and presence becomes its nature and well-established quality.’

Risalat ul-Mu‘awanah

Tarim, Hadramaut, Yemen

Useful Counsel

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Imam Abdallah ibn Alawi al-Haddad (Allah have mercy on him) said,

Scrupulously avoid every prohibited thing, whether it be significant or not.

Among the mortal sins which necessarily lead one to the (Hell) Fire are magic, murdering the life which Allah has rendered sacrosanct except in the course of justice, adultery, fornication, homosexuality, the drinking of wine and all other intoxicants, riba, expropriating the property of an orphan, and severing family ties.

You should beware exceedingly of all these things, and of everything else which Allah has prohibited.

Al-Wasaya al-Nafi’a

5th Feb 2010: Visit to Tarim, Hadramaut, Yemen

Speech of heart.

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It is an established principle that when the tongue is busy talking the heart is quietly listening to it. Whereas, when the tongue is silent the heart starts to talk.

Therefore, hold your tongue so that the heart does not listen to its useless speech. Instead make it the organ of remembrance (of Allah). Hence, your heart will become accustomed to this remembrance. (And eventually start to speak this itself).

And tawfiq is from Allah!

Ma’arif e Sufiya, page 334

Change for better!

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Advicing a couple going through a tough marital conflict sayyidi wa sanadi 

Mawlana Mohammmad Taqi Usmani (may Allah preserve him) said,

“You both need to change for better.

Do not be discouraged by past experiences.

Consider that you are starting a new life together again from scratch.

Pay close attention to each other’s rights and your own obligations.

Keep the envoirnment at home relaxed,  pleasant and lively.

Allocate some special quality time daily for each other.”

January, 2nd  2008