Category Archives: N. Advice

Robbers of sincerity

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Appreciating the work being done on a website sayyidi wa sanadi Mufti Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him and allow us to benefit from him spiritually, Amin!) said,

“The most essential thing is sincerity (ikhlas).
(That is doing a thing solely to gain the pleasure of Allah.)

Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) instructed Sayyidina Maaz bin Jabal (Allah be pleased with him),

أَخْلِصْ دِينَكَ يَكْفِكَ الْعَمَلُ الْقَليلُ
Be sincere in your Deen. This will be enough for you, (even) if your (good) actions are few.

There are many robbers of sincerity. They include showing off, love of fame and money, etc.. A major buccaneer is the assumption of acceptance from Allah (maqbooliyet indAllah) about one’s self.

Beware of them.’

Ramadan 1434, after dohar office majlis

Termination of islahi ta’luq

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Sayyidi wa sanadi Mufti Mohammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him) has made it very clear upfront in ‘Dasturul amal baraay talibeen e islah‘ that if there is a gap of more than six months in communication from the seeker in updating about his/her condition the islahi relationship will be terminated. Usually this is permanent.

However, there are exceptions.
The best approach is to humbly acknowledge one’s mistake, request for a second chance and be willing to accept the reprimand..

Most important thing is not to insist on one’s own demand. Actually it is bigger mistake to do so. Also, there is no role of asking senior murideen or mujazeen to intervene and plead one’s case. It usually backfires.

There is a lesson in this all. It is part of spiritual training tarbiyah.

Get organized

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Towards the end of Ramadan a seeker called and lamented about not being able to utilize the precious moments effectively.

Sayyidi wa sanadi Mufti Mohammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him and allow us to benefit from him immensely, Amin!) was obviously annoyed. He replied,

‘For a long duration you have lamented about the same problem.
That is, not being able to do what is instructed and required for a seeker. Until and unless you organize yourself and manage time properly you will continue to do so.

Make a decision. Either you plan and get organized or leave this path (of islah).

Do not lament!’

Ramadan 1434, after dhur, office.

In “Dasturul amal baraay talibeen e islah” it has been made very clear that if an individual is willing to spare the time and follow the instructions (including the daily recommeded recitation, etc.) only then he should commit and proceed for islah. Committing and then being lazy results in great loss of blessings. Also, it wastes time, especially for the Shaikh.

Rules for the Shaikh

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Hakim al Umma Mawlana Ashraf Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘Even the Shaikh should not sit idle. He should keep progressing in excellence.
Allah says,

‘and say, “My Lord, improve me in knowledge.” ‘[20:114]

He should not make a claim of excellence. However, there is no problem in mentioning the blessings (of Allah bestowed on him).

Allah says,

‘So, do not claim purity (from faults) for your selves.’ [53:32]

And

‘And about the bounty of your Lord, do talk.’ [93:11]

He should be eager on spreading the tariqa
Allah says,

‘who is very anxious for your welfare, [9:128]

He should be very kind and loving with the disciples.
Allah says,
‘and for the believers he is very kind, very merciful.’ [9:128]

He should forgive their shortcomings and mistakes.
Allah says,
‘Had you been rough and hard-hearted, they would have dispersed from around you. So, pardon them, and seek Forgiveness for them.’ [3:159]

He should not ignore them for the the sake of (wealthy or famous) worldly individuals.
Allah says,
Do not expel those who call out to their Lord morning and evening seeking His pleasure. You are not responsible for anything in their account, and they are not responsible for anything in your account, that you should expel them, and thus become one of the unjust. [6:52]

He should not expect any worldly benefit from the disciples.
Allah says,

‘Keep yourself content with those who call their Lord morning and evening, seeking His pleasure, and let not your eyes overlook them, seeking the splendor of the worldly life. And do not obey the one whose heart We have made heedless of Our remembrance,’ [18:28]
And,
‘ I did not demand any reward from you. My reward is with none except Allah,’ [10:72]

He should remain patient on the afflictions caused by fellow men.
Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said,
‘May Allah have mercy on my brother Musa, who was afflicted more than this (by his Umma) but he remained patient.’

He should maintain serenity and dignity. Otherwise disciple will consider him to be paltry and will not benefit from him (spiritually).
As is said regarding our Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) that whoever saw him from far away was intimated and whoever saw him from close by loved him.

He should not give preference to a disciple over others.
Allah says, ‘He (the Prophet) frowned and turned his face,’ [80:1]
However, if a disciple has more yearning of Allah(‘s pleasure) than it is fine to give preference to him.

He should not do anything that will make people have a bad opinion about him. As this will close the path (tareeq) of seeking instructions and benefiting (irshad).
Allah says,
‘the one who calls (people) towards Allah,’ [33:46]

Taleemud Deen, page 129-31

Wali’s limits

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Hakim al Umma Mawlana Ashraf Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘A friend of Allah (wali) can never reach the status of any of the Prophets.

The acts of worship (that are essential) can never be waived off. On the contrary the elite (friends of Allah) are instructed to do more acts of worship.

However, a majzoob, who has a overwhelming state is excused.

The wali is neither infallible (m’asoom) nor can he reach the status of the Companions (of Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace). Allah says in this regards,

‘You are the best ‘Ummah ever raised for mankind.’ [3:110]

And the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said,
‘You are the best nation out of the people.’

Moreover, there is consensus (ijma) of the scholars that all of the Companions are just.

Abdullah ibn al Mubarak (Allah have mercy on him) who was from the taba’een, said, ‘the dust in the nose of horse that Sayyidina Muawiyah (Allah be pleased with him) rode is better than Owais al Qarni and Umar al Marwani (Allah have mercy on them.’

Taleemud Deen, page 128

Maintaining respect of awliya

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Hakim al Umma Mawlana Ashraf Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘Negligence in maintaining etiquette (adab) of friends of Allah (awliya) is forbidden.

Similar, and more worse, is the case of excessive and overenthusiastic attitude in this regards.
This is because, it diminishes the status of Allah and the Prophet.

For example, considering awliya to be ‘Alim ul ghayib‘ (having knowledge of ‘unseen’*). This (assumption) necessitates unbelief (kufr).
Allah says,

Say, “No one in the heavens and the earth has the knowledge of the Unseen except Allah.” [27:65]

Say, “I do not say to you that I have the treasures of Allah, nor do I have the knowledge of the Unseen, nor do I say to you that I am an angel. I only follow what is revealed to me.” ” [6:50]

“………….they encompass nothing of His knowledge, except what He wills.” [2:255]

Or considering them (awliya) to have powers to create or destroy something or give children or provision, etc. or coerce Allah to do so is also unbelief (kufr).

Say, “I have no power to bring a benefit or a harm to myself, except that which Allah wills.” [7:188]

Or to perform an act for them (awliya) from the (established) actions of worship (ibadaat). Like, intending a vow (nazar) in their name, or performing tawaf of their grave, or supplicating to them, or recitation of their name as form of worship. Some of these acts are sinful and innovation, and others are unbelief (kufr) and associating partners with Allah (shirk).

Allah says,

“You alone do we worship, and from You alone do we seek help.” [1:5]

The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said,
Tawaf (circumbulation) of the House (of Allah: ka’ba) is (like) salah.”

«الدعاء هو العبادة»
“Supplications (dua) is (form of) worship”.

Allah says,

“Your Lord has said, “Call Me, I will respond to you. Definitely those who show arrogance against worshiping Me shall enter Jahannam (Hell) with disgrace.” [40:60]

“Surely, those whom you invoke beside Allah are slaves (of Allah) like you.” [7:194]

Taleemud Deen, page 127-9

Awliya are not infallible

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Hakim al Umma Mawlana Ashraf Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘One should not criticize the Shaikh if he infrequently commits something questionable.

One should remind himself of the story of Sayyedina Musa and Khidr (Allah’s peace be upon them).

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Either make an excuse or recall that friends of Allah (awliya) are not infallible. Moreover, with repentance all (sins) are forgiven.

However, this is for the Shaikh who is steadfast on Shariah and is firmly rooted (in piety) and it is an (isolated) act (of disobedience) committed accidentally. If this individual has made the acts of disobedience (fisq o fujoor) his habit, openly and in secret, then he is not a friend of Allah (wali). There is no need to make an excuse for his speech and actions. One should leave him.’

Taleemud Deen, page 126-7

Status of one’s Shaikh

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Hakim al Umma Mawlana Ashraf Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘It is acclaimed that one should consider his Shaikh superior to all other (Shuyukh).

Apparently there seems to be a contradiction in this and what Allah says,

…………….Above every man of knowledge, there is someone more knowledgeable.[12:76]

(To reconcile these) it must be clear that if one thinks like this due to overwhelming love (sukr e muhabbat) then he is excused.

If one is not in a state of overwhelm-ness than he should think that in living individuals I can not find anyone else who can benefit me more (spiritually) than this individual.
This is what my Shaikh sayyidi wa sanadi al Haaj Mohammad Imdadullah (Allah have mercy on him) said.’

Taleemud Deen, page 126

Rights of Shaikh

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Hakim al Umma Mawlana Ashraf Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘If one finds effect and influence (taseer) in the company of a Shaikh then he should,
1. Value this company
2. Develop extreme love and caring for this Shaikh
3. Follow his instructions thoroughly
4. Keep him happy,
5. Not to do anything that annoys him, because this results in cessation of receiving spiritual benefit (fayuz) for him.

In the initial verses of chapter Hujarat (49) the etiquette for (approaching) the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) are mentioned. The same rules for etiquette and love apply to the Shaikh, as he is a perfect (kamil) deputy (khalifa) of the Prophet.’

Taleemud Deen, page 126

49: The Private Apartments
With the name of Allah, the All-Merciful, the Very-Merciful.
[49:1]
O you who believe, do not proceed ahead of Allah and His Messenger, and fear Allah. Surely Allah is All-Hearing, All-Knowing.

[49:2]
O you who believe, do not raise your voices above the voice of the Prophet, and be not loud when speaking to him, as you are loud when speaking to one another, lest your good deeds should become void while you are not aware.

[49:3]
Surely, those who lower their voices before Allah’s Messenger are the ones whose hearts Allah has tested for piety; for them there is forgiveness, and a great reward.

[49:4]
As for those who call you from behind the chambers, most of them have no sense.

[49:5]
Had they remained patient until you come out to them, it would have been much better for them. And Allah is Most-Forgiving, Very-Merciful.

[49:6]
O you who believe, if a sinful person brings you a report, verify its correctness, lest you should harm a people out of ignorance, and then become remorseful on what you did.

[49:7]
And know that among you there is the Messenger of Allah. If he obeys you in many a matter, you will certainly fall into hardship. But Allah has endeared to you the Faith, and made it beautiful in your hearts, and made detestable to you the disbelief and sins and disobedience. Such people are rightly guided,

[49:8]
as a grace from Allah, and as a blessing. And Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.

Making multiple bayiah

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Hakim al Umma Mawlana Ashraf Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘It is an abominable practice and (sign of spiritual) debauchery to make bayiah with multiple Shuyukh without a genuine reason.

This results in loss of the blessings (barakah) of bayiah.

Moreover, it befogs the (spiritual beneficence received from the) heart (qalb) of the Shaykh and ripping of the (spiritual) connection (nisbet) is feared.

Such a person gains the reputation of being a (spiritual) delinquent.

Taleemud Deen, page 125-6

Eid: An unimaginable joy!

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The Prophet of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace) said,

“On the day of eid (when people gather to offer eid prayers)
Allah says to the Angels,
‘Have these people fulfilled the obligation (of fasting)
and are now gathered for prayers?

I swear by My pride, magnificence, majesty, mercy and elevated status that I will fulfill their prayers.

Tell them to return,
I have forgiven them all
and furthermore
I have replaced their sins with virtuous deeds.

Hence they return completely forgiven.

(Mishkat/Bahaiqi)

On our eid visit to Sayyidi wa sanadi Mawlana Mohammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him) we always found him to be extremely happy and cheerful, repeatedly telling usArifbillah Dr Abdul Hayy Arifi (Allah have mercy on him)’s saying regarding Eidul fitr

“We are excessively blessed individuals today.

All our sins have been forgiven.

They have been bartered with good deeds.

We are completely clean and tidy.”

An unimaginable joy!

In regards to taking another Shaikh

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Hakim al Umma Mawlana Ashraf Ali Thanawi (Allah have mercy on him) said,

‘If an individual with correct intention stayed in the service of a Shaikh for considerable duration but did not find any influence (ta’seer) in his company than he should seek his objective at another place. This is because the objective is Allah not the Shaikh.

However, one should not have bad belief about the first Shaikh. It is possible that he is perfect and accomplished but one’s share was not there.

Similarly, if the Shaikh dies before the objective is achieved or it is impossible to meet him then one should seek another Shaikh. The thought of benefiting from his grave being sufficient and no need for another living Shaikh must not be entertained . This is because the benefiting from the grave is not for instruction (and guidance), only a sahib e nisbet can benefit, resulting in progress of his state (Ahwal). Whereas, this individual is still in need of instruction. Moreover, if this was the case (that benefiting from grave of pious was enough) then there would be no need of bayiah (taking another Shaikh). There are millions of graves of perfect Shuyukh and even Prophets (to benefit from in the world).

Taleemud Deen, page 125

Repentance in Ramadan is essential

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Sayyidi wa sanadi Shaikh Mufti Mohammad Taqi Usmani (Allah preserve him and allow us to benefit from him abundantly, Amin!) said,

‘It is absolutely essential (fardh e ‘ain) that we make genuine repentance for all our sins during this month.

This is to avoid being the subject of the supplication made by Sayyidna Jibrael (Allah’s peace be on him) that destruction is for the person who finds Ramadan but does not have himself forgiven and our master Prophet Muhammad (Allah’s blessings and peace be upon him) saying ‘Amin!’ on it.’

Ramadan 1434 after dhuhar majlis, Darul Uloom